You stare into each other's eyes, hands barely touching across barely eaten plates of dinner a few dates in, and you retrace your steps up to this point.
You grew up in the church from baptism to youth groups. He did too.
You hung out with friends in high school, never dated. He did too.
You only dated if it was serious. He did too.
You worked with children and youth in the church - both volunteer and paid. He did too.
Eventually he asks and you say yes.
You stood in front of over 500 people from two different church families to make a committment. He did too.
You went to Hawaii, Maine, visited family, got mad, got happy and lived life. He did too.
You experienced the ultimate low. He did too.
You experienced the ultimate high. He did too.
Soon, you will sign the divorce papers.
He will too.